Showing posts with label Housekeeping. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Housekeeping. Show all posts

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Home Sweet Home - Balance

I have been thinking a lot about our home lately. The state of our home. The cleanliness of our home. The amount of time we spend in our home.

We are reading Little House in the Big Woods as a family and this really struck a chord with me.


What a simple life! Could we ever really be THAT simple? Only one day per week doing laundry? Only one day of cleaning? A day of rest! How relaxing.

So I cleaned the upstairs. Where the kids' rooms are. I gave away many, many things. Some I had to throw away. I think there are now so few toys that it will be hard to make substantial messes. A weight has lifted. 

The laundry once a week is a bit easier. Perhaps that is all I was doing anyway (except cloth diapers). But we do always have a huge pile out in the garage. I think giving away or recycling some clothes and turning them into cleaning rags is in order. 

This morning my kids asked me why we didn't bake yesterday. It was Saturday after all. I said because we went to the creek for hours and were in the sun all day. By the time we got home I was tired. Really tired.

The big question is should we stay home more? The kids need to be outside and I do not think our tiny backyard is going to cut it...

We are working on finding a balance.

 The weather will start to change but really that only means we will be outside more...

I am also starting to think about the upcoming homeschool year. There will not be much change in what we do, but co-op classes will start up, we are enrolling for homeschool P.E. class at the YMCA, I will need to get new binders for the kids' work, art, etc., and maybe a new binder for our pictures.

Here are some pictures from the first meetup for a group I created called the Rainbow Warriors. I'm not sure if the group is going to work in the long run or exactly how it will work. It takes commitment from other families and I'm just not sure how committed other families are. Also, I am almost positive that once school starts (this is not a homeschooling group), involvement will drop. I guess we shall see. I wish everyone was as excited about getting kids (and ourselves!) outside as I am. I see an awesome bird, plant, or insect and take a picture thinking it's the greatest thing ever. But no one else cares. It makes me a little sad I guess.











And here are pictures from my family's trip to the creek yesterday. It was a lot of fun and the water was really nice. We stayed for a long time.

The park was having a program on stream ecology.





After the program, we hung out at the creek for a couple of hours.

We picked up trash. I just cannot understand why someone who enjoys the creek (they spend their time there) would leave garbage everywhere. It doesn't make sense.


 We ate.


And we enjoyed ourselves..





The kids made up a game where they sit in the stream and wait for leaves to float to them. 







Mirek was so cute. He would get a leaf, let it float away in the water, wave and say "bye bye," then all of sudden run real fast and catch it again. He did this over and over. I could have watched him for hours.



We observed this little guy inch along for some time. Very neat.


 And then we headed to check out the Nature Center which is usually closed when we visit.




Maybe our balance is off. Maybe we spend too much time outside of the home. Maybe it is not. Can we ever spend too much time outside? If only our little house was in the big woods...

Friday, July 11, 2014

My home is my land...for now

Warning: This is more of my train of thought than a coherent essay.

I have been thinking a lot lately about moving. Not moving far. Just to the country. A huge garden, many chickens, a couple of goats to milk, maybe a pony for the kids. I have been looking into how much we could sell our house for. I've even been scrubbing the bathtub and thinking about paint.

 I scrubbed the bathtub so hard and for so long that it became real physical labor. The kind one who wants a homestead and wants to work outdoors in the garden and with animals craves. So I had an epiphany. Taking care of my home will substitute for taking care of my land...for now. I just have to work HARDER.

I feel like I already take pretty good care of my home. I value my home, I value the FEELING of home. However, I do homeschool and I do have four young kids. So my house gets dirty. My walls have holes in them from when some kid slid the rocking horse down the stairs. There are holes from doorknobs. There are happy faces and sad faces and height marks. These things can be fixed when the time comes. For now, I will work on keeping counters, hardwood and tile floors, fixtures, etc. in good shape.

"Grow where you are planted."


 I believe in this. Sure, I LOVE mountains, clear streams, and cool summer nights. But I also love Texas. I also love my family. 

While we (more like I) think of moving, I do not want my home to become just a house. I want it to remain our HOME. I want to take care of it a little better, yet still really LIVE in it. I do not know how long this process will last. 

We will likely need to sell our house while living in it. Then we will need to move to an apartment until we find our FOREVER home.

Simplify. Take care of the FEW things we own.

My goal is to be living and working on our homestead by the time I am 35. I am almost 32. I want to spend a lot of my younger years there and I want my children to be raised there.

While in our current home I want to study and experiment. I have found that reading blogs and checking out gardening books is not very helpful if the people do not live in my part of Texas. Duh. So I need to start studying the very local. How we grow right where I am. I can work on canning with store bought or farmer's market bought items. I have the materials to make my own soap but have not yet tried. I've only made one type of cheese and would like to make more.

One thing that hit me while reading Ben Hewitt's book Saved was that I should enjoy spending large amounts of time in the kitchen. I should be thankful I have that time. I should not resent it. We have a very relaxed lifestyle. Sometimes, thankfully, we do not drive once during a day or stretch of days. I love that. So why do I try to cook fast meals? 

Weird.

So, in all honesty, we will probably live in a trailer. 


However, in my romanticized mind I think of this.







In other news, we have been participating in a family nature scavenger hunt. Here are some photos from our "forest" hunt.